Solo female travel

We’ve asked solo women travellers – including those at Responsible Travel – how they do it and what they love about it.

I was preparing for a 12-hour train journey across India to meet a small group tour in Madhya Pradesh. “I’m going to book you into third class,” said Sophie Hartman, who was organising the tour. “Thank you,” I said, very grateful.

I thought I’d prepared for everything for this trip with our partner, Holidays in Rural India, but I hadn’t prepared for the seating dilemmas of train travel. Book into first class, and you’re in a four-bunk cabin with three strangers. For a solo female traveller, being in third class, with more people around, would be safer and therefore – contrary to expectation – more comfortable. I hadn’t considered this angle at all.

Luckily for me, Sophie had.

So many solo female travellers

Never before in history have women been allowed to be solo to such a degree. Not to be a mother, a partner, a piece of property – but to just be! It’s not a trend, but a lasting change, and one that we hope will become more commonplace across the world.

This wasn’t always the case. The concept of the ‘chaperone’ proliferated in the 18th, 19th and into the early 20th century in Europe. The role – usually undertaken by a woman close to the family – entailed accompanying an unmarried woman in public when her mother could not.

Jenny, head of communications at Responsible Travel, lives near a woman in her 80s who has just returned from her first solo trip – to Antarctica. “She said she’d been on very few holidays in her life, because she was alone,” says Jenny. “And she’s not the first single person to express that to me.”

We are lucky that we live in a moment when going alone is increasingly common. Whatever residual stigma solo travel has is sloughing away, leaving us unencumbered by anything but a good rucksack.

Small group tours for solo female travellers

All of our small group tours for adults are suited to solo female travellers.
“I’d wanted to visit Japan for a long time but didn’t have the confidence on my own,” says Caroline Sawyer, back from one of our Japan small group holidays. “It was my first time in Asia.”

Small group tours shouldn’t be the default solution for single females, but they definitely have a use – as I and countless others have found.

In certain countries solo female travellers are a norm. But in others, they are not, and navigating countries where unaccompanied women might be the source of interest can be exhausting and intimidating at times. But this isn’t the main reason that so many women join small group tours.

You’ll feel reassured and have someone to turn to if anything goes wrong, yes, but you’ll also make fantastic friends and brilliant connections.

Many of our repeat bookers for small group tours are women. They’ve loved it so much they’ve come back again and again. Ann Higgins has travelled with us 27 times: “Travelling with a group is good, small groups are even better!” she says. “You get people from all over the world who go on these trips and they can tell you what’s good in their country, or where they’ve gone before. You can make lots and lots of friends!”

Female travellers on the rise

We’ve found more and more female travellers are travelling solo.

“We had a wonderful group of six solo women travellers of varying ages and from all over the English-speaking world,” says Lucy Foley, who travelled to Cuba on one of our small group tours. “Six is the perfect number.”

An all-female group isn’t an unusual situation on one of our small group holidays. Our partner Intrepid Travel reported in the 2020s that a staggering 67 percent of their travellers were female, and half of all its guests were solo female travellers.

“Women are more likely to travel solo than men,” observes Meike van Krimpen, from our partner Wilderness Explorers. She also estimates that 60 percent of their travellers are travelling solo.

Age is no more a barrier than gender. We’re also happy to report that many solo female travellers are travelling in their 50s, 60s, 70s and 80s, sometimes for the first time.

Geraldine Westrupp, from our partner Wild Photography Holidays, tells us about three widows who have picked up photography later in life. “Each of them had independently picked up their late husbands’ cameras and started experimenting with them,” she says. “Now they’ve got to know each other through our holidays and bonded.” The women are now regular attendees on our photography trips.

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Tailor made trips for solo female travellers

All our tailor made trips are suitable for solo female travellers. Some come with a guide, others might be self guided, with support a phone call away.

“I very much enjoyed the balance between independent travel and supported travel that this trip gave me,” says solo traveller Brenda Varnam, travelling on one of our self guided walks on Santorini, Greece. “I was able to explore trails and places by myself that I would have never found on my own... but I was able to explore them on my own (which I enjoy... solo time is healthy and important for me) with the confidence of a guide in my pocket.”

Where to go as a single woman

Solo female travellers often look at Europe – a continent where a high proportion of people live alone, where culture is focused on the individual, and where solo travel is broadly very normal.

But you could go anywhere on a small group tour. Here, some of our reviewers pick out places they liked, or places that perhaps surprised with how safe they felt.

Peru: “A wonderful, friendly experience somewhere that I felt safe as a solo female traveller,” says Caroline Sawyer, who went to Peru on one of our small group tours.

Kruger, South Africa: “As a solo female traveller who had never been to Africa, I was not sure what to expect, but this trip exceeded my expectations. Very safe and relaxing trip,” says Eva Kristjansdottir, who went on one of our small group safaris in South Africa.

Tanzania, Kenya, Zanzibar: “The whole trip was seamless from the planning to the actual trip itself. As a solo female traveller, I felt peace of mind and safe,” Michelle Kunan, who went on an East Africa holiday.

Azerbaijan: “I felt very safe walking on my own in Baku in the evening,” says Faroz Nunhuck, who went on one of our small group Azerbaijan trips.

Atlas Mountains, Morocco: “I was travelling alone as a woman and felt very safe,” says Katharina Zittel, who went trekking on one of our Atlas Mountains trips.

Oman: “Oman in particular is really safe for female travellers,” says Zahra Niazi, back from one of our Oman holidays.
Track those tigers, swim in that lake, and sign up to that mountain climb!

What to do

Discovery & self-discovery

Women might be travelling for self-discovery. Accordingly, we get a lot of women selecting our wellness holidays. But to assume that women only like one type of trip is wrong.

“We have a lot of solo travellers joining our retreats,” says Pippa Dale-Harris at our Greek retreat Dolphin’s Leap. “They’re often independent, going off to do something else in the region as well. One recently was climbing Mount Olympus after her time with us.”

Women travel solo for lots of reasons, not least just wanting a holiday, but what often tops the list is: transformation. This usually involves getting out of your comfort zone, so track those tigers, swim in that lake, and sign up to that mountain climb!

Limit-testing

Quick to risk assess, women are also very adept at perceiving our own limitations – but we are often wrong about those. Claire Copeman for our partner Adventure Tours UK is keen to get women to realise their full potential as adventurers. Women can climb mountains and leave competitors in the dust on ultra-marathons, but Claire finds that it’s often women who underestimate their own ability and fitness, and ring up worried that they’ll let the group down.

“We get women emailing us about trans-Wales trail running and they say, ‘I’m a bit worried about my pace’,” Claire says. “And we always go back and say ‘it’s never about pace’ – and I like to think that hearing back from a woman they take it more honestly… and so many of our guests are women.”

Our adventure tours help you push past pre-conceived limits – what an adrenaline rush!

Women only tours

Women only tours are a great way to celebrate female spaces and female solidarity. They can be great bonding experiences with your fellow travellers, and with the people you meet in the destination.

They can also take you to countries where the female experience is very different from the male one and give you privileged insight into the often marginalised or hidden lives of women around the world. They often visit countries where it’s harder to travel solo – see our women only tours of India, IranJordan and Morocco.

The end of the line

There’s a happy ending to my train journey in India. I was matched up with two other travellers who were joining the same tour, so we shared a four-bunk first class cabin. And when the fourth bunk was occupied by an older man who came and sat on my bed, my travel companions jumped to my aid.

It also has a happy beginning: it was my first time as a solo female traveller in Asia. I already know it won’t be my last.
Written by Eloise Barker
Photo credits: [Page banner: Alan Hurt Jr] [Intro: JK] [Small group tours: NEOM] [Tailor made trips: Jeison Higuita] [What to do: Frank van Hulst / Unsplash+]