Get on the WhatsApp
Pre-departure nerves are the worst! Consider asking to be added to the small group WhatsApp chat – lots of our partners will do this automatically with guests who opt in.
“People have said it makes them feel a lot more comfortable, getting to know the rest of their group before they arrive,” says Geraldine Westrupp, from our partner Wild Photography Holidays.
Prepare for the welcome meal
Lots of trips start with a big meal together so that everyone can get to know each other. Prepare for many anecdotes around the table about holidays past!
Go local
If you’re feeling anxious, you might prefer one of our smaller partners, where the person you chat to is the person running the trip on the ground – so you’ll have already ‘met’ them by phone before you go.
“This was my first trip on my own, but I felt very comfortable with the holiday providers as the owners were the people directly running the trip,” says Julie Woods, of our Alaska adventure trip. “They were always available to answer questions both before and during.”
A bit of matchmaking
Our operator may be able to put you in a group with more solo bookers. You may want to be a little flexible with dates so they can do this.
Whoever you go with, your group will likely be of a shared sensibility. “I almost get put off as a solo traveller that I might end up with a much younger group that may want to party or I am unable to relate to as I am not on a typical ‘gap year’ style trip,” says Cera McCrann, who was in her thirties when she travelled on one of our Borneo holidays. “It’s very refreshing that there were people I could relate with, who had similar interests.”
First impressions
A group full of couples? Not necessarily a bad thing. “When people sign up with us, we get them to fill out a questionnaire for various reasons, but one of them is, ‘What are your aims on holiday? What would you like to do on holiday?’” says Lucy Woollons, from our Spanish Pyrenees partner Aragon Active. “Even the couples say they’re looking forward to meeting new people. They’re always open. Otherwise, they wouldn’t join us in the first place, so again it’s self-selecting.”
Trips of two halves
“Be aware that others in your group may have been travelling together some time before this trip starts,” says Jackie Wall, of our Costa Rica and Panama Tour. If you join a long distance walking or overland tour the rest of the group may have already been there a week.
Our partners have strategies to make overlapping groups work. “The crew put a lot of effort into helping the groups integrate,” says Michael Battley, from our partner Dragoman. “Everyone is very welcoming and it’s not something?we have had any issues with before.”
New countries & multiple guides
You may also have a change of guides over a longer trip in two countries or more. Sometimes, having one guide can be more reassuring, as traveller Jenny Sherwood reported from our South Africa safari: “The consistent staff made you feel safe (particularly as a solo traveller, although in the group I never felt alone).”
Some of our trips have a consistent tour leader throughout, with local guides joining in to lend their specific expertise different regions.
Getting some alone time
Time alone: everyone needs it. “I especially liked the flexibility and that I could go off an explore on my own,” says Vicki Jones, returning from one of our small group Japan holidays.
Over the years, we’ve honed our holidays to finesse the balance between socialising and solitude.
Common ground
Alone time aside, lots of groups bond. “We often have a number of solo travellers per expedition,” says Cassia Jackson, from our cruise specialist Heritage Expeditions. “It’s not uncommon for people to meet on one expedition, keep in touch and then travel again to another destination with us together.”
In a lot of ways, travel is all about connection – it connects us to the world and to others within it. Solo travel may never be truly solo, but it’s all the better for it.